I don’t normally reach for books in this genre, but when my boss handed me a copy of Unoffendable by Brant Hansen, I decided to give it a try. I’m always looking for a good read—even the ones that stretch me outside my usual shelves.
Unoffendable challenges the idea that we have a right to hold onto anger. It nudges readers to release outrage, let go of constant offense, and lean into humility and grace instead. That’s not always comfortable. In fact, it can feel downright countercultural in today’s world.
As a writer, this hit close to home. Putting books into the world—whether it’s a children’s story about sheep, a motivational journal, or a blog post—means opening yourself up to opinions. Not everyone will love what you create. Some won’t understand it. And that’s okay. If I let every potential criticism take root, I’d never publish another page.
It also connects deeply to my Motivate Me: A 90-Day Journal to Transform Your Habits. Growth isn’t just about productivity and goals. It’s about heart work. Letting go of offense frees up emotional space. Space to create. Space to grow. Space to focus on becoming better rather than becoming bitter.
I may not read this genre often, but I’m grateful for books that make me pause and examine my own reactions. Sometimes motivation isn’t about pushing harder. Sometimes it’s about softening.
And that, too, is part of the journey. ✨
